Clues That Your Partner is Cheating on You, Checkout These 10 Signs

Are you in the middle of a serious relationship or is the relationship as fresh as a daisy? There’s always a chance your partner might be cheating on you. Some of us have been cheated on and there were major signs that we totally overlooked. Those signs were right in our faces. We probably felt we were in a happy place, which actually led us to overlooking those signs. That being said, not every relationship is healthy and happy. Every so often, having an iota of trust can be difficult when you begin to suspect your partner is not being faithful.

Nevertheless, when you start to have such feeling, how do you confirm your suspicion, what do you need to do, and how do you go about it? Is there actually a way to even know?   If you are becoming very suspicious of your boyfriend or girlfriend having an affair, then you really need to check out these signs to find out if you are right.

1.      Your partner starts needing a lot of privacy. It’s okay to respect your partner’s privacy but not when you all used to do things together and all of a sudden they suddenly need privacy. That should have you raising an eye brow.

2.      They begin to hide their phones or deleting messages before letting you have their mobile devices. And they take their phones to the bathroom with them. Imagine they take photos of you with their phone and you ask to see the photos, and they start to act all careful, protecting the phone so you don’t go extra sliding or mistakenly open that chat app.

3.      You only get enough attention to keep you around but not enough to actually move forward in your relationship. This can be hurtful, especially when you are the emotional type.

4.      They start coming up with flimsy excuses why they can’t meet up with you for a date or event. Why the sudden change? You always created time for me but now, you are giving me reasons why we can’t do that movie date? Start being suspicious.

5.      They stop initiating sexy time. A lot of us have been there. When it all started, they initiated sexy time, but all of a sudden, it becomes boring to them. That should get you gnawed.

6.      They either lie about irrelevant things at times when it doesn’t really seem to matter.

7.      They have a lot of numbers in their phone that aren't saved under names.  Or when saved, they use odd names or strange names which you just might not be suspicious of. A friend once saved his side chick’s name as “Tunde Rat Poison.” I know right?!

8.      You never know where they are, and they hardly tell. This can only involve a lot of digging. Are you ready to play Sherlock Holmes? Then get your investigative hat on.

9.      Checking out other people in your presence and justifying illicit attractions. Though, some say this isn’t wrong, but we think it is totally awkward.  You can’t be with someone you're genuinely in love with, walking around, and you see your eyes wandering.

10.  And this last one which we sort of know of: when they whisper while on phone or use codes to talk. It is very come on though.

Okay guys, let’s get something straight here, your boo might just be doing all these above mentioned and still be loyal at the same time. But if you strongly feel something is not right, then communication is key, you need to speak your mind and let your partner know how you feel.